Who is BigJer53... Jer is a Real Person... whose here to Help You!
I am Gerald G. Vandecar...Known to My Family...My Friends as Jerry or Jer... to My 2 Kids... The Loves of My Life...Daughter Kristi 31... Son Scott 28... Dad
Though to Others... Others Throughout the World... I am Simply known as BigJer53
You see I have been on the Internet... The Worldwide Web for 7 Plus Years now... I have been in to Computers for 16 Plus Years... Some People will say as I will Myself. "I have Forgotten more about the Computer World... then Most will ever Learn!"
It's not Bragging or Saying I am Better... Its More a Statement that if I hadn't had a Passion... a Love for Computers... You Might never have Seen My Face... or ever maybe gotten to See this Webpage... Your Now Looking at.
You Will Notice!... If Haven't Already... My Writing Style is one that will Drive Most Teachers Nuts!... You see I have been in the Business World where it is No Longer Acceptable... To Grade a Person for Their Puncuation... or even Critique them for their Spelling... it is now Called Harrassment in the Work Space... an Infringement on Their Personal Liberties.
Ergo You will Notice... I Write in Block Letter Typing Style... a Better way to look at it... It's the Old Western Union Telegraph Style... Fast Blurp Message... The Three Dots will Notice are like Telegraph Stops...and the New Part of Message is Given.
People have Told me... the Separation with the 3 dots also lets Your Eyes Relax... or Allows You to See the Message... Capitals Signify the Importance of Topic also.
You see I have written a lot of Technical Business Bids... Where You have to put in what Your Doing... Also Explain what is Expected of Customer...The Fact of the Matter is I at one time in Life used to write... 4 1/2 Million Dollars a Year of Labor Contracts...
Whereby I was Virtual Officed out of House...(working 8 hour days at My Disecretion) which did for almost 4 1/2 Years and worked Endless Hours... You see I had a Great Starting Ability...The Stopping Part was My Downfall... the End of the Day I was always Going Ok Ok just a Few More Minutes and can Finish this... Lets just say for a Workaholic... You can Work Lots of Hours and not get Paid for the Effort... and Leave it at that!... as am always Reminded thats in the Past... Today is Just another Day!
You see though Myself I Love the New World... I Love the Internet...I Love being able to get Information... 24/7 thats 24 Hours a Day 7 days a Week... 365 Days a Year... Also Myself I have Talked to... and Helped over 1000 People... and Helped them... Get Started on the Internet over the Past 5+ Years.
I am Not a Chat Junkie... but Someone who 14 + Years ago went... Nobody is Going to Teach Me this Computer Stuff... So I Jumped Feet 1st into the Book I received with My 1st Computer... a 286 with Dos for the Platform... and Started Reading... "This is How to Turn on Your New Computer"... The Rest is now History.
The Fact of the Matter is... this is also how I have made So Many Lifetime Friends... also where I Met My Lover Sooz ... Who with her 12 Year Old Daughter Lindsey are now Part of My Life... Yeah We Met over the Internet... Was just in Passing Conversations over Months... We met Finally in Bend Oregon where My Son Scott... had just Moved and I was going there to drop off some things for him...
We Met in a Parking lot which was almost a 1/2 way Point between Sacramento California where We Live in My House. (Ours if take into Account a Lady always get blamed for the Mess.. but No its All of Ours now) and Sooz came down from Seattle Washington a Long Journey for both of Us.
Sooz was coming to Meet that Egotiscal...Self Centered... Arrogant Guy who kept telling her was Going to Change Her Life by teaching her the Internet... Just had to Meet Me... and Myself I was going to maybe Meet... have Coffee then get Out of There!... Whereby then God Played the Biggest Trick and Answered My Prayers with Sooz... She is Like everything I ever Prayed for...
My Daughter Kristi also Met My Son In Law Rick over the Internet... Whereby I gave her My Blessings... and said for their 1st Meeting... What Could be the Worst thing if Followed Her Heart... was to have maybe a Great Dinner or a Nice Drive.
So Yes You can Find Love on the Internet... Just Have to be Careful is all.
You see I was born in Springfield Missouri in 1953 ergo the 53 in My Nickname.
BigJer by the way has always been My Nick Name... You see as a Kid I was always a DayDreamer... I have always Dreamed Big!... So I have always been Rewarded Big!...
People who Know me... but have never heard My Nick... will always Gravitate towards Calling me BigJer... because I constantly tell them... My Hopes Dreams... My Ideas for the Future... Yes even My Bosses call me this... Maybe because I am also Big Headed and never say No I can't do that.... (Maybe You will have to Judge Me for Yourself... though Personally... I never Judge others... I take them at Face Value... and I leave the Judgement up to God)
For those not knowing Missouri it is the "Show Me State" Whereby hopefully I will Show You... I Truly Live by Example.
I never ask People to do things... that Myself I have not already tried... or been Successful at.
So Hopefully You will find I am Truly Positive... Truly Inspirational... Though Admittedly a bit Egotistical also... I Have Always Believed in Myself and Others.
You see You will never get me to to Not Believe... that if You Apply Yourself... You will Never get that which God has intended for You.
I Firmly Believe if You Love Yourself... Love Your Family... Love Your Friends... then there really is Nothing that can Stop You from having what is Yours! (Though in Honesty I was Shocked when they Told Me I would never... be a Nuclear Physicist or Nuclear Rocket Scientist) I still became Someone. who can Look Myself in the Mirror and Go. "Yeah Jer You did Real Good for Yourself... and Yeah Baby You can Dream! and Yeah if want others will Love to Hear Your Dreams... You Maybe can even Lead them to Their Piece of the Pie!also.
Hopefully in the Coming Days, Months... Years... You will Follow some of what I am saying.
You Hopefully will see I am not here trying to Spam You... Con You... or Lead You on with False Promises. I am Truly who I say I am.
and We All as a Team will not only become Successful... but maybe even perhaps Wealthy. If not in Monetary Value... then in Lifetime Friendship.
So Thank-You from the Bottom of My Heart... and With Warmest Sincerity... I Welcome You into My World.
I am also Hoping to Make Lifetime Friends... with those Willing to Join Me...My Lover Sooz... her Daughter Lindsey... My Family... and Friends... on Our Quest to maybe Make The World a Better Place.
I Hope that You will Add My PageBigJer53
To Your Browser, Simply by hitting Ctrl+D or Opening Your Favorites and Adding if in Internet Explorer or Book Marking in Netscape, I want to Insure that You can come back to My Site as Often as You want, to see what is New and Exciting.
*Special Note* Throughout this Web Site You Will Notice the Words We...Our...Us that is in Regards Us Working as a Team... I also with My Partner and Lover Sooz share additional Websites
The one We Share Together is CallJerSooz.com
Sooz also Promotes her Site Sooz58
Though All the Sites Might Look Similar being Share like ideas...they are Written in Different Styles.So Please Check them out if You would like too
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